Monday, January 27, 2014

Dear beloved men

You have no idea how easy it is to please a women, and this woman in particular. 

All you have to do is give me your undivided attention, every once in a while (all the time might get boring!). "That's easy for you to say," you say; women are all over the place - talking to you while texting on their phone or worse, looking over your shoulder- and they never give you their undivided attention. Guess what men, and here's the good news - it's easy for you to do this. You know how to be single focused and present, And that's what we as women CRAVE because it's so damn hard for us to do this!

You don't have to impress me, you don't have to be a masterful lover, clinician, jack of all trades, executive, or fancy stepper. To sweep me off my feet, all you have to do is pay attention and be yourself. You don't have to TRY. I know, I know, you think that if you just let your uncensored, raw and beasty self out, we'll run away screaming, or worse, verbally castrate you.

I challenge you to test this out. Next time you're with your woman, or any woman, do some research: Find out what happens if you shut up and listen. Then take a risk and tell her something about you that is raw, uncensored and true about you. And feel the jolt of electricity that fires up between you. You might see her melt before your eyes.